tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-10827252899585492902024-03-13T06:40:05.438-07:00Less is More...truly there is more in less!3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.comBlogger25125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-16503768000044909072012-08-01T16:15:00.002-07:002015-03-22T15:31:55.981-07:00Mental Abuse<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;">
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<i style="color: white;">By <a href="http://ezinearticles.com/?expert=Annie_Kaszina" title="EzineArticles Expert Author Annie Kaszina">Annie
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<span style="font-size: small;">1. Sticks and
stones won't break my bones" - </span><span style="font-size: small;">and words won't leave any measurable physical
damage, but they will cause progressive, long-term harm. Never underestimate
the power of words: words are used to brainwash.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"> Being told you are "<b>stupid</b>", "<b>ugly</b>", "<b>lazy</b>" or "<b>worthless</b>"
is never acceptable. The first times you hear it, it will hurt, naturally. In
time you "may get used to" hearing it from a partner. That's when you
start to internalise and believe it. When that happens you are doing the other
person's work of putting you down for them. This is why your feelings of
self-worth suffer increasingly over time.The good news is that just as words
have been used to bring you down, you can learn to harness the power of words
to build you up and restore your confidence and belief in yourself.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">2. You are always
told that it's your fault</span><span style="font-size: small;">-
Somehow, whatever happens, however it starts, the ultimate blame is always
yours. Notice that we are talking ultimate blame here. The blaming partner will
always tell you that their behaviour was caused by what you said or did. In
fact, their argument runs along the lines that you can't possibly blame them
for anything, because if you hadn't said what you said, or done what you did it
would never have happened.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">3. You're more
inclined to believe your partner than you are to believe yourself. </span><span style="font-size: small;">Have you ever reeled with
a sense of hurt and injustice, or seethed with anger at the way you've been
treated? Have you found yourself asking: "Is it reasonable to feel like
this?" "Am I misinterpreting things?" "Have I got it
wrong?"</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">If this is you, what it means is
that you have become so brainwashed you've stopped trusting in your own
judgement. Your mind keeps throwing up the observations and questions because,
deep down, you know that what is happening is utterly wrong. But right now you
can't feel the strength of your own convictions.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">4. You need your
partner to acknowledge your feelings. </span><span style="font-size: small;">Have you ever felt desperate to make your partner
hear what you are saying and apologies for the hurtful things they've said?
Have you ever felt that only they can heal the pain they've caused? Does your
need for them to validate your feelings keep you hooked into the relationship? When
a partner constantly denies or refuses to listen to your feelings, that is,
unquestionably, mental abuse.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">5. Your partner
blows hot and cold</span><span style="font-size: small;">.
He can be very loving but is often highly critical of you. He may tell you how
much he loves you, yet he is short on care or consideration towards you. In
fact, some of the time, maybe even a lot of the time, he treats you as if you
were someone he truly dislikes.You do everything you can to make
him happy, but it's never good enough. You're more like the pet dog in the
relationship than you are the equal partner. Your constant efforts to get his
attention and please him meet with limited success. Sometimes he'll be charmed,
often he's dismissive.</span><br />
<span style="font-size: small;">If you find yourself puzzling about
how your partner can treat you that way, it is because you are trying to live
in a love-based relationship, when in reality you are living in a control-based
relationship. The mental abuser struggles with his own feelings of
worthlessness and uses his relationship to create a feeling of personal power,
at his partner's expense.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">6. You feel as if
you are constantly walking on eggshells. </span><span style="font-size: small;">There is a real degree of fear in the relationship.
You have come to dread his outbursts, the hurtful things that he will find to
say to you. (Maybe the same anxiety and need to please spill over into your
other relationships also.)Fear is not part of a loving
relationship, but it is a vital part of a mentally abusive relationship. It
enables the abuser to maintain control over</span><span style="font-size: small;"> you.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">7. You can heal. </span><span style="font-size: small;">Mentally abusive
relationships cause enormous emotional damage to the loving partner who tries,
against all odds, to hold the relationship together and, ultimately, can't do
it, because her partner is working against her.Whether you are currently in a
mentally abusive relationship, have left one recently, or years later are still
struggling with the anxieties and low self-worth and lack of confidence caused by
mental abuse, it is never too late to heal</span></div>
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you do need to work with a person or a program specifically geared to mental
abuse recovery.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;">Women who have suffered mental abuse
expect radical change of themselves, and they expect it right away. This is why
they often struggle and, not uncommonly, take up with another abusive partner. <b>Mental abuse recovery is a gradual process</b>.
Low self-worth and limiting beliefs about what kind of future the abuse
sufferer can ever hope for are the blocks that can stop women from moving on.
But they are blocks that you can clear very effectively.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: small;"> Just as language was once used to
harm you, you can now learn how language can heal you. You can overcome past
mental abuse and keep yourself safe from it in the future. You can also learn
to feel strong, believe in yourself and create the life and the relationships
you truly want.</span></div>
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<span style="font-size: x-small;"><span style="font-size: small;">"The Woman You
Want To Be" is a unique workbook </span>designed to accompany you on a year long
journey into emotional health and happiness.” </span></div>
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Not only women are experiencing this kind of abuse but also men, women too is
capable of doing the same to his partner.It is very difficult to say nor decide
to do something when you are exactly in same situation .Only i can say is
please don’t lose hope, stay focus and try to get out of the situation before
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3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-68578693644785588112010-12-04T01:52:00.000-08:002010-12-04T02:36:25.991-08:00He Likes, Loves, Long For...<div style="text-align: center;"><span style="text-decoration: underline;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=51199.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="width: 270px; height: 326px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/51199.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a></span><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"> <span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 153, 255);font-size:130%;" > We've asked over 200 men to share their thoughts on beauty with us and found very interesting result.<br /></span><ul style="color: rgb(255, 153, 255);"><li style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-size:130%;">98% of guys prefer a simpler look over a more made up look.</span></li><li style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-size:130%;">100% of guy finds a healthy life style sexy, and they can tell a girl if the girl takes care of her self from the look of her skin.</span></li><li style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-size:130%;">89% of men are turned off by the dry skin.</span></li><li style="font-style: italic;"><span style="font-size:130%;">90% of dude think there's too much unnecessary stuff in a girl's kikay kit.</span></li></ul><ul style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 153, 255);"><li><span style="font-size:130%;">95% of men notice girls who wearing less make -up.</span></li></ul><br /><br /></div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-30685559645055757702010-07-09T04:39:00.000-07:002010-07-10T04:02:22.686-07:00Your No Good Boyfriend...<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=53148.jpg" target="_blank"><img src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/53148.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /> </a><br /><div style="text-align: left; color: rgb(255, 204, 255);font-family:times new roman;"><div style="text-align: left; font-style: italic;font-family:courier new;"> <span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204);font-size:100%;" > <span style="font-size:130%;">Dating a jerk a who brings you more heartache than joy? Sticking it out, playing "martyr" and waiting for him to change could seriously harm your health. In fact sticking with anything that's making you unhappy can cause not just mental, but even physical trauma says experts.<br /> According to research if you in a stressful situation for longer than a few months, your setting your self up for physical problems like headaches, hair loss, skin disorders and digestive woes in the short term and increase risk of heart disease in long term.<br /> Leaving someone you've spent a lot of emotion, energy and time, isn't easy but you must determine how long you've been putting up with a situation and how much you're willing to sacrifice by staying... a ruled woman says " Move on, girl".</span></span><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /></span></div><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /></span></div><div style="text-align: left; color: rgb(255, 204, 255);font-family:times new roman;"><span style="font-size:130%;"><br /></span></div><br /></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com2tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-62589483337561486472010-07-06T04:32:00.001-07:002010-07-09T04:08:23.498-07:00Twilight Saga Eclipse<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=eclipse-then-and-now.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="width: 390px; height: 407px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/eclipse-then-and-now.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(204, 51, 204);font-family:georgia;font-size:100%;" >Hi guys! i already watched eclipse and i really love it... i want to tell and share some details regarding the movie but i don't want to spoil your excitement if you haven't yet watch it...<br />It's better late than never guys, so hurry go to the nearest cinema near you..</span><br /></div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-10649432932915103332010-01-28T01:44:00.000-08:002010-01-28T02:08:06.772-08:00Missing My Blog...<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=86415.gif" target="_blank"><img style="width: 167px; height: 302px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/86415.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /> </a><br /><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span><div style="text-align: left;font-family:lucida grande;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-family: georgia;font-size:100%;" ><span style="font-style: italic;">Hi its been awhile since i last wrote..i've been busy for a couple of months but i never forgot all of my friends and new friends in blogspot, thank you very much for visiting me even though that there is nothing new in my blog. I will visit all of you as soon as possible. More power to all of you...Blessed you all and happy new year!</span></span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span></div><br /></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-86563727891114544012009-11-29T20:23:00.000-08:002010-07-13T03:38:43.308-07:00"Eclipse" the Twilight Saga<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=TwilightEclipse.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="width: 391px; height: 404px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/TwilightEclipse.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /> </a><br /><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-family:webdings;font-size:85%;" >( photo source: eclipse-twilight-trailer.blogspot.com)</span><br /><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" ></span><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-family:webdings;font-size:130%;" >This photo is one of the scene in incoming "Eclipse" twilight saga. After the released of "new moon" the twilight saga last Nov.20,2009 until now i keep on watching it repeatedly i am happy because what they did in movie is almost same as the book it self, it was like i am reading the actual book inside the cinema. And i can't wait for June 2010 , date that they will release "eclipse" movie, i am excited because this is where belle became a woman and climax of the whole story of twilight saga. i hope you guys are excited too...</span><br /></div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-12436507577177590142009-11-13T23:26:00.000-08:002009-11-13T23:42:14.380-08:00Things Men Fear Most About Marriage<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=26b447f0.gif" target="_blank"><img style="width: 167px; height: 352px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/26b447f0.gif" alt="bride" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left; color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-style: italic;">Bride to be take note, this are worry syndrome that usually occurs to men whose going to you<br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-style: italic;">soon...</span><br /><br /><ul style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"><li>That his odds of ever hooking up with a "hot babe" will become ill.</li><li>That you will gain 30 lbs.</li><li>That his friend with have all the fun while you'll force him to stay home and clean up.</li><li>That you will turn into his mother.</li></ul><br /><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=18793.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="width: 85px; height: 135px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/18793.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"> </span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-style: italic;">i don't see why this worry syndrome be a hindrance in marrying the woman that you love...</span><br /></div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-63580029317833975482009-11-06T02:18:00.000-08:002009-11-06T03:03:35.049-08:00Girlfriend Changes...He Freak About!<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=29725.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="width: 321px; height: 395px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/29725.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left; font-style: italic;font-family:arial;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >Men aren't the only one's who transform when they become part of a couple. Below what guys fear most:</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >26% -She don't want to have sex.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >17% -She'll let her self go.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >15% -She'll try to change the way i dress/talk/eat.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >14% -She'll get really needy.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >10% -She'll crack down on the guy.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >7% -She'll push for more commitment.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >5% -She'll want me to hangout with her family.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >3% -She'll became a homebody.</span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" ><br /></span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >3% -She'll bitch about interest in sport.</span><br /><br /></span><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="font-size:85%;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=e26c51ed.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/e26c51ed.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:130%;"> </span><span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 0);font-size:130%;" > </span><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" >Sad to say we are only human, anything and everything in the world change. But if you really love each other it really doesn't matter, what is the use of the mouth if you will not talk about your differences...</span><span style="font-size:100%;"><br /></span><br /></span></div> </div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-45606634723199373282009-10-29T01:58:00.001-07:002009-11-05T01:06:56.815-08:007 Reason Why People Should Not Get Drunk<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=996c99e4.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/996c99e4.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /> </a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><div style="text-align: justify;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-style: italic;">Let us take a break here are some very same reason why i always tell my dad not to get drunk, and also based in my own experience drinking alcoholic beverages is not bad as long as you can handle your self. If you do anything and everything too much you may end up in same consequences such as this people in the photo.</span><br /></div><br /><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=44625a76.gif" target="_blank"><img style="width: 94px; height: 101px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/44625a76.gif" alt="green poh" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-style: italic;"> laughter is the best medicine! thank you my nice space!!! </span><br /></div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-29766278411807962202009-10-24T06:09:00.000-07:002009-10-26T01:03:58.514-07:00Trying To Avoid Overlooked Issues<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=17792.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="width: 335px; height: 335px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/17792.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-style: italic;">Lot's of women find this issues very difficult to avoid, but when practice there is a surprising good result in your relationship.</span><br /><br /><ul style="text-align: left; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">You ignore money matters</span>-<span style="font-style: italic;"> awkward, you need to discuss who should pay for what and how both you can afford.</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">Your too friendly with his pals</span>- t<span style="font-style: italic;">hey're his friend and he wants to preserve that separate part of his life that doesn't include you.So don't tag along every time he's with them.</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">You never argue</span>- <span style="font-style: italic;">by not addressing a problem, it probably won't be resolved. Explain how you're feeling, give him a chance to respond and don't let it turn into an insult bout.</span></li><li><span style="font-weight: bold;">You're too low maintenance</span> - <span style="font-style: italic;">if he's inconsiderate and you don't call it out on him.He'll keep on treating you badly just be straight up and say you don't like being disrespect.</span></li></ul><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=55490.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/55490.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a> <span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102); font-style: italic;">as for me and my experiences it is truly very difficult to avoid this issues, but i always try not to forget this things and it never fails me. We have less fight now...</span><br /><br /><br /></div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-27166653028637466802009-10-24T02:40:00.000-07:002009-10-24T05:54:04.565-07:00Have To Write But Need To Rest<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=29594.jpg" target="_blank"><img style="width: 231px; height: 227px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/29594.jpg" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><br /><br /><div style="text-align: justify;"> <span style="color: rgb(255, 153, 102);"> </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:100%;" >I just got home and it's 2:30 am in the morning. This whole day is very prostrating same as other days that past. I am exhausted because it's very hot outside when i went to my work in alabang and i am not feeling well to due to my monthly visitor. It's been a week or two since i last wrote in my blog. I want to write, my mind is full of memories and experiences that i want to share the world but for some reason i can't do it. Every time i start to write in a paper as draft before i post it in my blog nothing comes out of my head as if it was empty, blank space like there is nothing to remember back, i ask my self why? Before i started blogging i have read an article regarding on how to start your blog, it says that one the requirements before you can start and write your own blog is you must first feel, know what you really want. Focus on what you want to blog about, what's on your mind as long it's legal there nothing wrong on blogging. You heart and mind must be relax empty of all barriers that kept you from doing something that you want to do. I guess the author is right i could not write nor blog anything because there is so many things that bothers me lately that is way i can not concentrate....</span><br /></div><div style="text-align: justify;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=025196cb.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/025196cb.gif" alt="witch broom" border="0" /></a><span style="color: rgb(204, 51, 204);font-size:100%;" > </span><span style="font-style: italic; color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:100%;" >so much stress in life i guess i need to rest first.....</span><br /></div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-57545224171256247372009-10-24T01:59:00.000-07:002009-10-24T01:59:32.424-07:00Pinoy Smile - Tooth and Oral Health Care for Filipino-Canadian Kids and Families (© UBC, 2009)<a href="http://www.pinoysmiles.net/2009/10/contest.html">Pinoy Smile - Tooth and Oral Health Care for Filipino-Canadian Kids and Families (© UBC, 2009)</a>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-43324803758646068642009-10-09T03:40:00.000-07:002010-07-12T03:51:29.931-07:00Real Resolution For Real Guys and Gals!<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=18911.gif" target="_blank"> <img src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/18911.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /> </a><br /><br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:85%;" ><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-size:130%;">Here are five common resolution, reworked and souped up for success!</span><br /></span><br /></span><br /><ul style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">I will lose weight</span>-<span style="font-style: italic;"> Focusing on commitment to healthier lifestyle is a better resolve.Also sticking to a proper wellness regimen will help.</span></span></li></ul><span style="font-size:100%;"></span><ul style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">I will save money</span>- <span style="font-style: italic;">Log every peso you spend for one week then review where you're wasting your cash and where you can utilize it better.</span></span></li></ul><span style="font-size:100%;"></span><ul style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">I will do something to help the under privileged</span> - <span style="font-style: italic;">It should be something you feel really strongly about, so that you hale the drive to keep up the good work.</span></span></li></ul><span style="font-size:100%;"></span><ul style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">I will trave</span>l- <span style="font-style: italic;">Instead of to do exotic location,find a place you really want to see, get ticket and make reservation, then go!</span></span></li></ul><span style="font-size:100%;"></span><ul style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);"><li><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="font-weight: bold;">I will get a promotion/ better job</span>-<span style="font-style: italic;"> Even if you're not getting that step up right now,there's no reason why you shouldn't be working towards your future goal from today!!!</span></span></li></ul><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=f7b2d4a7.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/f7b2d4a7.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a><span style="font-size:85%;"><span style="font-size:100%;"><span style="color: rgb(255, 102, 102);font-size:130%;" > <span style="font-style: italic;">It's been a while since my last blog i really miss visiting and reading other peoples blog. I sold my laptop its been a month and until now i don't have my own pc , but it will not stop me from doing some thing i love . Life is too short and i will make used of it rather doing nothing at all...</span></span><br /></span></span><br /><span style="font-size:85%;"><br /></span></div><br /></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-4513640559305500682009-10-06T04:43:00.000-07:002009-10-06T05:03:33.197-07:00Blue, Green Eyes ...<div class="separator" style="clear: both; text-align: center;"><a href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_3NeBXErSgyQ/SsskqspdrqI/AAAAAAAAACM/ChVivUQNLas/s1600-h/Image0122.jpg" imageanchor="1" style="margin-left: 1em; margin-right: 1em;"><img border="0" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_3NeBXErSgyQ/SsskqspdrqI/AAAAAAAAACM/ChVivUQNLas/s320/Image0122.jpg" /> </a><br />
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</div><div style="color: #ea9999; text-align: justify;"> <span style="font-size: small;">Alaska that is what i named the cat in the photo because of its white fur and a pair of eyes with two different shade of color. Alaska is not actually my pet, but when you visit our house you can see alaska setting in our veranda and sometimes in front of our door, but not inside the house. I have no idea who is the owner of alaska, only one thing i know is that the cat loves visiting us.I like staring at alaska's eyes, it was my first time to see a cat whose eyes have 2 different shade green and blue. I love cat and specially kittens, but my mother won't let us have one for a pet because of allergies.My sister have asthma and i have one too allergic rhinitis.. </span><br />
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<li>When you bring up the future he changes the topic.</li>
<li>He doesn't know what you do exactly for a living.</li>
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</div><div class="separator" style="clear: both; color: #e06666; text-align: left;">It was early morning Saturday September 26, 2009 i am worried already because of continuous heavy rain outside .At 10:00 am nearby streets and other barangays were already flooded. I decide not to go work, there is no point on going because my house is near makati and my work is in alabang.The news said that osmenia high way is under water.But it never stop there by 12:00 pm me and my family was terrified to know that there is a house on fire few blocks away from where i am living.That time we don't now what to do and where to go because if we turn right there is fire and if we turn left all we can see is water.I was not only scared for my life but also for my two kids and my parents life.That day is one of my unforgettable moment, for some reason my car wouldn't start the kids is already inside the car and my parents is still in the house. I don't have a choice but to choose to go into the water if worst comes to worst, rather than going to the direction where house on fire is located.So, my car wouldn't start! but i start to pray and ask God for his protection.I remember verse in the bible Psalm 91;15 "He shall call upon me, and i will answer him; I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him and honor him;" God is good and he answers prayers.There is a nearby volunteer fire station they are the first one to came to put out the fire.It took 30-40 min for other fire trucks to come because of flood, it is very difficult for them to get through. End of that day i was very thankful that we are all safe and our house is still standing...<br />
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</div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-27326056327664799912009-09-28T05:29:00.000-07:002009-10-13T05:39:40.413-07:00For Your Eyes Only!<div style="text-align: center;"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/6ed73e47.jpg" width="278" border="0" height="275" /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: left;">Sushi every one? By just looking in this picture makes me hungry, but sad to say i can not eat this sushi.Why? believe it or not this one is made out of towel...surprised! me too! I want to buy this one for Christmas.<br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/ead2c225.jpg" width="239" border="0" height="239" /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=b08a9d86.jpg" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/b08a9d86.jpg" width="276" border="0" height="280" /> </a><br /><br /><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=9b33f0f5.jpg" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/9b33f0f5.jpg" width="289" border="0" height="289" /> </a><br /><br /><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=dce39f9e.jpg" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/dce39f9e.jpg" width="236" border="0" height="236" /> </a><br /><br /> <br /><br /><div style="text-align: left;"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/48378.gif" width="67" border="0" height="67" /> <span style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102);">Who knows where is the nearest confectionery store? </span><br /></div></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-6330990018491209082009-09-27T05:15:00.000-07:002010-07-17T03:26:06.737-07:00Is Your Child Ready For School?<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=b0e32a0f.gif" target="_blank"><img style="width: 125px; height: 218px;" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/b0e32a0f.gif" alt="Photobucket" border="0" /></a></div><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: left;">I am a single parent and a working mama with 2 kids. Education of my children is my no.1 priority. I have encounter two different experience of crucial social and emotional skills of my kids. When they first enrolled in nursery . My eldest daughter, i remember her 1st day in school she was excited, unlike any other child in the room she didn't cry when i was about to leave the room. She was prepared, she was 9 yrs. now and doing great in school. This time i enrolled his younger brother, i thought the situation would be the same for him like his sister before, and so i guess?, but when i was about to leave the room because parents are not allowed to stay inside during class. I was surprised when he clung in my leg and start to cry until i decided to stay and finished the whole session just for him to stay inside the school. He wasn't ready for school yet..<br /><br />Here are some crucial social and emotional skills of a child that we parents should remember and consider for their readiness in school:<br /></div><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: left;"><br /></div><ul style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102);"><li><b>Confidence- </b>children must learn to feel good about themselves and believe they can succeed.</li><li><b>Independence</b>- children need to learn to do things for themselves.</li><li><b>Motivation</b>- children must want to learn.</li><li><b>Curiosity</b>- children are naturally curious and must remain in order to get the most of the learning opportunities.</li><li><b>Persistence</b>- children must learn to finished what they started.</li><li><b>Cooperation</b>- children must be able to get along with others and learn to share and take turns.</li><li><b>Empathy</b>- children must learn to have interest in others and understand how they feel.</li></ul><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102);"><br /></div><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102);"><br /></div><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102);">Experts agree that there are no absolute ways of determining if a child is ready for school. Standardized test are usually unreliable,since toddlers often develop at their own pace and can be simultaneously "ahead" or "behind" of their peers in different areas.<br /></div><br /><span style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102);"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=d21c2fc6.gif" target="_blank"><img src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/d21c2fc6.gif" alt="jack hummer" border="0" /></a> What to look for ,What to do, so you know if he or she is ready for that big leap!!!</span><br /><div style="text-align: center;"><br /></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-73007287811223009892009-09-25T05:22:00.000-07:002009-10-05T23:59:13.369-07:00Must Know For Guys: Signs She's Cheating<div style="text-align: center;"><a href="http://s927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/?action=view&current=9ec1e11f.gif" target="_blank"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" height="413" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/9ec1e11f.gif" width="343" /> </a><br />
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<ul style="color: #e06666; text-align: left;"><li>A cheating woman will suddenly veer away from her daily routines.She suddenly disappears for hours on end.</li>
<li>Unfaithful woman freaks out over a simple question .Brief pause answering usually means that she is searching for answer in her mind for excuse.</li>
<li>A woman who's out to cheat start suddenly taking about an old friend in purposely vague manner. Something fishy is definitely a foot.If she keeps this friendship under wrap and is evasive about introducing the person to her partner.</li>
<li>A woman who wants to stray will start picking fights with her partner over every thing no.For some reason nagging man helps her eliminate her guilt.</li>
<li> A woman who suddenly goes to parlor or hairdreser every week is most likely up to no good.<br />
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<li>The lasts holiday he took was on December 25, 2003</li>
<li>He asked you to marry him over email.</li>
<li>You know his secretary's voice better than him.</li>
<li>He gets "a little low"when his boss leaves town.</li>
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</div><ul><li style="color: #e06666;">He called by her name in middle of sex.</li>
<li style="color: #e06666;">He still keeps a photo of him and her by his bed or in his wallet.</li>
<li><span style="color: #e06666;">He's affected when he hears news about her.</span> </li>
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</div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com1tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-69241920923335530382009-09-23T00:07:00.000-07:002009-10-13T05:39:06.601-07:00Retrenchment! what to do next?<div style="text-align: center;"><br /><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/b0f1d82f.jpg" border="0" /><br /><br /><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: left;">"I'm sorry, but we can not renew your contract anymore", a former boss said. Getting retrenched especially during difficult times is the worst thing one could experience.I knew i survived it because of a few helpful hints.God forbid if retrenchment should happen to you(or already has), it's better that you heed these word. said mommy miam fabian. Retrenchment has more impact on mom's, especially if she is the bread winner of the family.Tips on how to gather self confidence and get a new job.<br /><br /></div><ul style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: left;"><li>Do not lose hope in your future.</li><li>Jot down your priorities. </li><li>Change your perspective.</li><li>Constantly upgrade your self and your skills.</li><li>Update your resume to reflect your skills and accomplishment.</li><li>Have some assessment of your skills and interest.</li><li>Get references from your previous boss.</li><li>Use your network.</li><li>Always be look out for opportunities.</li></ul><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: left;">To retrenched means there is a business downturn, a structural thing and not employees fault.It's not the end world. Try to follow these simple tips and sure you'll get back on track for a new job in no time.<br /><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"> <img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/f8ef0136.gif" border="0" /> <span style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102);">Thanks you working moms for this wonderful tips!</span><br /></div></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-82985867820097399102009-09-22T03:40:00.000-07:002010-07-15T01:41:32.156-07:00Any Man Would Be Lucky To Have You<div style="text-align: center;"><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><br /><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/795ff5bc.jpg" width="200" border="0" height="200" /><br /><br /><br /><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:small;">If you think your not beautiful, if you think others are better looking, more sexy and good dresser than you.Think again and keep it to your self.You tell your self "Any man would be lucky to have me" until it it sinks in and your start to believe..Here's 9 reason why your enough and any man would be so lucky to have you.</span><br /></div><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: justify;"><span style="font-size:small;"><br /></span><br /></div><div style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102); text-align: justify;"><ul><li><span style="font-size:small;">You believe in God, Love and Marriage.</span></li><li><span style="font-size:small;">You're not desperate or anxious .</span></li><li><span style="font-size:small;">You don't chase anyone.</span></li><li><span style="font-size:small;">You're not cynical.</span></li><li><span style="font-size:small;">You don't date man who don't want you.</span></li><li><span style="font-size:small;">You don't use sex to make man love you.</span></li><li><span style="font-size:small;">You don't go into pieces when relationship doesn't work.</span></li><li><span style="font-size:small;">You trust in the abundance and goodness of the universe; if not him someone better will come.</span></li><li><span style="font-size:small;">You wipe away your tears so that it doesn't smudge your make up and move on.</span></li></ul><span style="font-size:small;"><br /></span><br /><ul></ul><span style="font-size:small;"> </span><span style="font-size:small;">"I am a beautiful woman. I am enough.". You told your self that you don't have to do anything on a date than show up. He'll either love you or not. It's not your fault if he doesn't call again. Your beautiful inside and out. Someone else will love you if he doesn't....</span><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><br /></div><div style="text-align: left;"><img alt="Photobucket" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/65034773.gif" border="0" /><span style="color: rgb(224, 102, 102);"> <span style="font-size:small;">Some people doesn't appreciate what they have until it's gone..</span></span><br /></div></div>3ndzyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09269943049070719282noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1082725289958549290.post-81735104590054144522009-09-21T01:55:00.000-07:002009-10-06T00:12:03.567-07:00A Woman Unlike Any Other<div style="text-align: center;"><img alt="Photobucket" border="0" src="http://i927.photobucket.com/albums/ad119/3ndzy/6badd96f.gif" /><br />
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<li><span style="font-size: small;">You listen "very attentively".</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;">You talk "pause between the sentence and don't bubble in and out of nervousness".</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;">You look "demurely and never stare".</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;">You stand "straight".</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;">You breath "slowly".</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;">You sit "properly".</span></li>
<li><span style="font-size: small;">You walk "briskly with shoulder back".</span></li>
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