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This photo is one of the scene in incoming "Eclipse" twilight saga. After the released of "new moon" the twilight saga last Nov.20,2009 until now i keep on watching it repeatedly i am happy because what they did in movie is almost same as the book it self, it was like i am reading the actual book inside the cinema. And i can't wait for June 2010 , date that they will release "eclipse" movie, i am excited because this is where belle became a woman and climax of the whole story of twilight saga. i hope you guys are excited too...

Bride to be take note, this are worry syndrome that usually occurs to men whose going to you

soon...

• That his odds of ever hooking up with a "hot babe" will become ill.
• That you will gain 30 lbs.
• That his friend with have all the fun while you'll force him to stay home and clean up.
• That you will turn into his mother.

i don't see why this worry syndrome be a hindrance in marrying the woman that you love...

Men aren't the only one's who transform when they become part of a couple. Below what guys fear most:

26% -She don't want to have sex.
17% -She'll let her self go.
15% -She'll try to change the way i dress/talk/eat.
14% -She'll get really needy.
10% -She'll crack down on the guy.
7% -She'll push for more commitment.
5% -She'll want me to hangout with her family.
3% -She'll became a homebody.
3% -She'll bitch about interest in sport.

Sad to say we are only human, anything and everything in the world change. But if you really love each other it really doesn't matter, what is the use of the mouth if you will not talk about your differences...

Let us take a break here are some very same reason why i always tell my dad not to get drunk, and also based in my own experience drinking alcoholic beverages is not bad as long as you can handle your self. If you do anything and everything too much you may end up in same consequences such as this people in the photo.

laughter is the best medicine! thank you my nice space!!!

Lot's of women find this issues very difficult to avoid, but when practice there is a surprising good result in your relationship.

• You ignore money matters- awkward, you need to discuss who should pay for what and how both you can afford.
• Your too friendly with his pals- they're his friend and he wants to preserve that separate part of his life that doesn't include you.So don't tag along every time he's with them.
• You never argue- by not addressing a problem, it probably won't be resolved. Explain how you're feeling, give him a chance to respond and don't let it turn into an insult bout.
• You're too low maintenance - if he's inconsiderate and you don't call it out on him.He'll keep on treating you badly just be straight up and say you don't like being disrespect.

as for me and my experiences it is truly very difficult to avoid this issues, but i always try not to forget this things and it never fails me. We have less fight now...

I just got home and it's 2:30 am in the morning. This whole day is very prostrating same as other days that past. I am exhausted because it's very hot outside when i went to my work in alabang and i am not feeling well to due to my monthly visitor. It's been a week or two since i last wrote in my blog. I want to write, my mind is full of memories and experiences that i want to share the world but for some reason i can't do it. Every time i start to write in a paper as draft before i post it in my blog nothing comes out of my head as if it was empty, blank space like there is nothing to remember back, i ask my self why? Before i started blogging i have read an article regarding on how to start your blog, it says that one the requirements before you can start and write your own blog is you must first feel, know what you really want. Focus on what you want to blog about, what's on your mind as long it's legal there nothing wrong on blogging. You heart and mind must be relax empty of all barriers that kept you from doing something that you want to do. I guess the author is right i could not write nor blog anything because there is so many things that bothers me lately that is way i can not concentrate....

so much stress in life i guess i need to rest first.....

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Here are five common resolution, reworked and souped up for success!

• I will lose weight- Focusing on commitment to healthier lifestyle is a better resolve.Also sticking to a proper wellness regimen will help.

• I will save money- Log every peso you spend for one week then review where you're wasting your cash and where you can utilize it better.

• I will do something to help the under privileged - It should be something you feel really strongly about, so that you hale the drive to keep up the good work.

• I will travel- Instead of to do exotic location,find a place you really want to see, get ticket and make reservation, then go!

• I will get a promotion/ better job- Even if you're not getting that step up right now,there's no reason why you shouldn't be working towards your future goal from today!!!

It's been a while since my last blog i really miss visiting and reading other peoples blog. I sold my laptop its been a month and until now i don't have my own pc , but it will not stop me from doing some thing i love . Life is too short and i will make used of it rather doing nothing at all...

 

 

 Alaska that is what i named the cat in the photo because of its white fur and a pair of eyes with two different shade of color. Alaska is not actually my pet, but when you visit our house you can see alaska setting in our veranda and sometimes in front of our door, but not inside the house. I have no idea who is the owner of alaska, only one thing i know is that the cat loves visiting us.I like staring at alaska's eyes, it was my first time to see a cat whose eyes have 2 different shade green and blue. I love cat and specially kittens, but my mother won't let us have one for a pet because of allergies.My sister have asthma and i have one too allergic rhinitis.. 

hello kitty! i wish i could have one....

Hints to snag that lucrative job,even if you've been recently retrenched!

Before the interview:

• Practice your oral communication skills in front of the mirror.
• Carry your self with confidence.
• acquaint your self to the usual do's and don't when having an interview- dress appropriately, be direct but polite.

During the interview:

• When the topic of retrenchment comes up, honesty is the best policy.
• Know that retrenchment is not your fault.This is the safest reason there is so that you can speak with ease.
• Don't gloss over the dirty detail. You can say that your contract wasn't renewed, you thought about a change of career etc.

The whole process may test your patience and perseverance as in all is setbacks, time is the key to getting over one's retrenchment and going back to the job market.

One has to just hang on there....

  

• He calls you aileen your name is maya.
• When you bring up the future he changes the topic.
• He doesn't know what you do exactly for a living.
• He always forget your anniversary.

Mmm...oh well i guess i just have to find another one!

This photo was taken on the same day typhoon "Ondoy" visit metro manila.A house is on fire few blocks away from my house.

It was early morning Saturday September 26, 2009 i am worried already because of continuous heavy rain outside .At 10:00 am nearby streets and other barangays were already flooded. I decide not to go work, there is no point on going because my house is near makati and my work is in alabang.The news said that osmenia high way is under water.But it never stop there by 12:00 pm me and my family was terrified to know that there is a house on fire few blocks away from where i am living.That time we don't now what to do and where to go because if we turn right there is fire and if we turn left all we can see is water.I was not only scared for my life but also for my two kids and my parents life.That day is one of my unforgettable moment, for some reason my car wouldn't start the kids is already inside the car and my parents is still in the house. I don't have a choice but to choose to go into the water if worst comes to worst, rather than going to the direction where house on fire is located.So, my car wouldn't start! but i start to pray and ask God  for his protection.I remember verse in the bible Psalm 91;15 "He shall call upon me, and i will answer him; I will be with him in trouble; I will deliver him and honor him;" God is good and he answers prayers.There is a nearby volunteer fire station they are the first one to came to put out the  fire.It took 30-40 min for other fire trucks to come because of  flood, it is very difficult for them to get through. End of  that day i was very thankful that we are all safe and our house is still standing...

     

  

Sushi every one? By just looking in this picture makes me hungry, but sad to say i can not eat this sushi.Why? believe it or not this one is made out of towel...surprised! me too! I want to buy this one for Christmas.

Who knows where is the nearest confectionery store?

I am a single parent and a working mama with 2 kids. Education of my children is my no.1 priority. I have encounter two different experience of crucial social and emotional skills of my kids. When they first enrolled in nursery . My eldest daughter, i remember her 1st day in school she was excited, unlike any other child in the room she didn't cry when i was about to leave the room. She was prepared, she was 9 yrs. now and doing great in school. This time i enrolled his younger brother, i thought the situation would be the same for him like his sister before, and so i guess?, but when i was about to leave the room because parents are not allowed to stay inside during class. I was surprised when he clung in my leg and start to cry until i decided to stay and finished the whole session just for him to stay inside the school. He wasn't ready for school yet..

Here are some crucial social and emotional skills of a child that we parents should remember and consider for their readiness in school:

• Confidence- children must learn to feel good about themselves and believe they can succeed.
• Independence- children need to learn to do things for themselves.
• Motivation- children must want to learn.
• Curiosity- children are naturally curious and must remain in order to get the most of the learning opportunities.
• Persistence- children must learn to finished what they started.
• Cooperation- children must be able to get along with others and learn to share and take turns.
• Empathy- children must learn to have interest in others and understand how they feel.

Experts agree that there are no absolute ways of determining if a child is ready for school. Standardized test are usually unreliable,since toddlers often develop at their own pace and can be simultaneously "ahead" or "behind" of their peers in different areas.

What to look for ,What to do, so you know if he or she is ready for that big leap!!!

 

• A cheating woman will suddenly veer away from her daily routines.She suddenly disappears for hours on end.
• Unfaithful woman freaks out over a simple question .Brief pause answering usually means that she is searching for answer in her mind for excuse.
• A woman who's out to cheat start suddenly taking about an old friend in purposely vague manner. Something fishy is definitely a foot.If she keeps this friendship under wrap and is evasive about introducing the person to her partner.
• A woman who wants to stray will start picking fights with her partner over every thing no.For some reason  nagging man helps her eliminate her guilt.
• A woman who suddenly goes to parlor or hairdreser every week is most likely up to no good.
  

Do not do to others what you do not want others do to you.....golden rules!

  

• He sets target for how many times you have sex.
• The lasts holiday he took was on December 25, 2003
• He asked you to marry him over email.
• You know his secretary's voice better than him.
• He gets "a little low"when his boss leaves town.

Yesterday my neck is in pain, today i have a headache! what's next? i think i am the one whose workaholic here...hahaha! 

 

• He called by her name in middle of sex.
• He still keeps a photo of  him and her by his bed or in his wallet.
• He's affected when he hears news about her. 

Ouch! i don't know what to say if that happens to me.. i hope not..

"I'm sorry, but we can not renew your contract anymore", a former boss said. Getting retrenched especially during difficult times is the worst thing one could experience.I knew i survived it because of a few helpful hints.God forbid if retrenchment should happen to you(or already has), it's better that you heed these word. said mommy miam fabian. Retrenchment has more impact on mom's, especially if she is the bread winner of the family.Tips on how to gather self confidence and get a new job.

• Do not lose hope in your future.
• Jot down your priorities.
• Change your perspective.
• Constantly upgrade your self and your skills.
• Update your resume to reflect your skills and accomplishment.
• Have some assessment of your skills and interest.
• Get references from your previous boss.
• Use your network.
• Always be look out for opportunities.

To retrenched means there is a business downturn, a structural thing and not employees fault.It's not the end world. Try to follow these simple tips and sure you'll get back on track for a new job in no time.

Thanks you working moms for this wonderful tips!

If you think your not beautiful, if you think others are better looking, more sexy and good dresser than you.Think again and keep it to your self.You tell your self "Any man would be lucky to have me" until it it sinks in and your start to believe..Here's 9 reason why your enough and any man would be so lucky to have you.

• You believe in God, Love and Marriage.
• You're not desperate or anxious .
• You don't chase anyone.
• You're not cynical.
• You don't date man who don't want you.
• You don't use sex to make man love you.
• You don't go into pieces when relationship doesn't work.
• You trust in the abundance and goodness of the universe; if not him someone better will come.
• You wipe away your tears so that it doesn't smudge your make up and move on.

"I am a beautiful woman. I am enough.". You told your self that you don't have to do anything on a date than show up. He'll either love you or not. It's not your fault if he doesn't call again. Your beautiful inside and out. Someone else will love you if he doesn't....

Some people doesn't appreciate what they have until it's gone..

 Being a woman unlike any other is really an attitude.A Sense of confidence that permeates your being from head to toe.Most women forget that there are certain  manners to follow even man of your dreams is in front you. you may call this old fashion but it works, we want to be notice by men  won't  we? here are some tips to remember if you want to be a woman unlike any other....

• You smile as if "you brightens up the whole world".
• You listen "very attentively".
• You talk "pause between the sentence and don't bubble in and out of nervousness".
• You look "demurely and never stare".
• You stand "straight".
• You breath "slowly".
• You sit "properly".
• You walk "briskly with shoulder back".

Doing this simple things will not cost you .You don't have to be rich or exceptionally smart to feel this way about your self and you don't have to be born with this feeling either.So practice, practice,practice makes a man perfect...

 


Yeheey!!! Girl Power!!! This is my first blogs i hope i can share more tips and guides as many as i could.Love it!!!